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10 Things You’ve Been Through Growing Up With Strict Parents


Chinese parents aren’t known for being lenient to their kids, but some parents are even stricter than others. How many of these can you relate to?


  1. You don’t bother bargaining. You know that when they say no, that’s their final answer. Appealing or challenging their decision would only lead to trouble.
  2. You cry out of frustration when your friends keep
    changing the details of your meet-up and you have to keep explaining to your parents what’s happening.
  3. Sex is definitely off topic. When anything sexual comes up on the TV, you rush to change the channel.
  4. You were expected to behave with exceeding manners at all times, but most especially when you parents have guests. You were the politest kid in your clique.
  5. You know that getting a tattoo or dressing up in skimpy clothing is tantamount to being disowned by your family.strict-parent
  6. You have to wait until your parents are in a good mood before asking them for an extra allowance or permission to go out with your friends.
  7. You get sick with anxiety when you go home past your curfew, even when you have a good excuse.
  8. You practically beg your friends to behave themselves on the rare occasions that they come over to your house.
  9. You’re careful with what you joke about, knowing that if you fail to make them laugh, you’re in for an hour-long sermon about appropriate subjects for humor.
  10. People often tell your parents what a wonderful, nice kid you are, and when you see the pride in their eyes, you light up inside too.


Pregnant or Just Getting Fat?

Most women, especially those who have been married, are very proud to be pregnant. Normally, on the very first day that they knew they were pregnant, they get excited and tell all their friends about the news. “Excitement” is the perfect word for a woman who does that. On the other hand, there while you are in very serious relationship and you do not want to ruin it. Never ask your girl this question: Are you pregnant? Most of the time, boys unintentionally ask this question to a woman especially when they want to make fun of girls.


However, boys should avoid this because they might hurt a girls’ feeling. Some men can be very insensitive and ask fat girls if they are pregnant. Here’s the truth: Women who are obese have low self-esteem. Therefore, they might easily get hurt. Plus, they don’t want to be ask with that question because they feel like they are the only one who’s down. There are only two things that can happen: they might get angry and slap you on the face or they may cry in front of you and a lot of people will notice.


The worst thing that could happen is that people might look at you differently, while others might say that you are a mean person. Moreover, this is also applicable to women who have healthy bodies – asking her if she’s pregnant might also put you in danger. This is because she might be pregnant and she don’t want others to know it. For sure, you’ll reason out that you did not mean what you say. Unluckily, this she doesn’t buy your reason. You offended here personally. Therefore, stop and never ever as this question again.